This was touched on in the fluxbox styles thread, but I'm separating it out.
This is a very hand thread to have bookmarked as a fluxbox HowToIn the ~/.fluxbox/init file, there are three main lines to define the fluxbox window decorations:
session.screen0.titlebar.left: Shade Stick
session.screen0.titlebar.right: Minimize Maximize Close
session.screen0.defaultDeco: NORMAL
The first two lines define the position of the window buttons you want to use - so you can put them upper right/left, whatever you're comfortable with.
The last line deines the decor to use - NORMAL is the default, and note it's all caps and, I believe, case sensative.
Reading the man page for fluxbox-apps you'll come across this:
[Deco] {value}
Specify the decoration state. There are several predefined value
sets:
NORMAL
Standard decorations
NONE
No decorations
BORDER
Like NONE except keep the X window border
TAB
Like BORDER except keep external tabs (if enabled)
TINY
Titlebar with only an iconify button
TOOL
Titlebar only
The value may also be a bitmask for finer-grained control. The
bits are, from (1<<0) to (1<<10): Titlebar, Handle/Grips,
Border, Iconify Button, Maximize Button, Close Button, Menu
Button, Sticky Button, Shade Button, External Tabs, Focus
Enabled.
Note there are several options other than NORMAL to use in the ~/.fluxbox/init file for the default decor; or you can override the default decor by setting decor on a per-app basis in the ~/.fluxbox/apps file.
But what exactly does this mean:
The value may also be a bitmask for finer-grained control. The
bits are, from (1<<0) to (1<<10): Titlebar, Handle/Grips,
Border, Iconify Button, Maximize Button, Close Button, Menu
Button, Sticky Button, Shade Button, External Tabs, Focus
Enabled.
That's where the above link comes in handy -
Each bit-property is given a value that's based on a power of 2 in ascending order:
Property Value
titlebar 1
handle/grips 2
border 4
minimize button (called iconify) 8
maximize button 16
close button 32
enable window menu 64
sticky button 128
shade button 256
enable tabbing 512
enable focus 1024
So the user can decide how a particular window shoud be decorated, adds up the values and uses it with [Deco] in the apps file. So if all you want is tab and borders: 512 + 4 = 516, in the ~/.fluxbox/apps file:
[Deco] {516}
Adding in some other window decor and per app settings yields an entry similar to:
[app] (name=win) (class=Xpdf)
[Dimensions] {80% 90%}
[Position] (UPPERLEFT) {10% 5%}
[Deco] {1647}
[Minimized] {no}
[Maximized] {no}
[Fullscreen] {no}
[Layer] {8}
[Alpha] {255}
[end]

Note than when you log out/in to fluxbox the deco bitmask gets converted to so code (hex?) so the apps entry changes to:
[app] (name=win) (class=Xpdf)
[Dimensions] {80% 90%}
[Position] (UPPERLEFT) {1% 2%}
[Shaded] {no}
[Deco] {0x66f}
[Sticky] {no}
[Minimized] {no}
[Maximized] {no}
[Fullscreen] {no}
[Layer] {8}
[Alpha] {255}
[end]
If the user has a preferred Deco it can be used as default in the ~/.fluxbox/init file
session.screen0.defaultDeco: 0x66f
instead of individually in the ~/.fluxbox/apps file.